This Is Why Some Beginners Quit | Remote Seduction | Two Kinds of Beginners.

By Tomas:8 min · Dec 11, 2024
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Many beginners try remote seduction for a short time and give up too soon.

The way many tend to think about remote seduction is,

 "I connected with my target today, so they have to chase me tomorrow."

When nothing happens, they get angry, discouraged, and then think, 

"They just don't have it, or remote seduction is a scam!"

They have a microwave mentality, and they normally get annoyed that they have to think differently or try something unusual just to get the results they think they deserve. 

If remote seduction works, then it should work now, and they should get their results without all that other nonsense that is needed to achieve them.

This is a bad approach!

In this straight-to-the-point post, I challenge you to weigh your expectations properly so that you can be able to stick it while learning this stuff.

Without any further ado

Let's dive in!

The Two Types of Beginners.

Imagine two old-time friends, Jack and Max, who decide to improve their dating lives by learning to meet women randomly after being single for quite some time.

One weekend they both decide to go to a social gathering to try and meet women; after all, they have been reading a lot of dating material online, and their expectations are pretty high.

They talk to a few; their conversational skills are rusty and lead to women closing off, leaving both feeling rejected in the process.

After a long day, they leave feeling discouraged but promise each other to give it a try again the following week.

The same thing happens the following week, and at this point Jack becomes discouraged and thinks maybe he doesn't have any "game" in him. 

He thinks what he reads about improving his dating life works for others and not him.

Max tries to encourage Jack that he has it; he just needs to deal with rejection better, polish his conversational skills, and maybe even max his looks.

In spite of Max's good advice, Jack can't deal with the pain of dealing with rejection after rejection and the effort required to achieve his dating goals; he ends up giving up.

Max, on the other hand, keeps going out and improving himself overall while accepting blows that come with learning something new.

He does deep reflection after going out about what he does right and wrong.

On top of that, he keeps reading articles and starting threads online about dating and even books a few coaching sessions with a dating coach to iron out his "game."

As he keeps going out and educating himself, he starts realizing what he couldn't "see" before —he has game in him, and more women keep opening to him, and he ends up dating a couple of them.

I've been teaching remote seduction for over four years or so now.

Similar patterns occur in the way many beginners tend to approach developing these abilities and the results they end up achieving.

Beginners like Jack don't have that strong a desire to get good at it and are often unwilling to put in the effort required to stick it out after a few initial disappointments.

The problem is they approach it with unrealistic expectations and don't take it as a "skillset" that must be developed over time.

They don't engage in any kind of experimentation and deep reflection like someone who ends up achieving the results they think they should be achieving.

Often they end up getting discouraged, angry, and giving up.

On the other hand, a beginner like Max ends up learning by taking a lot of initiative and attacking their sticking points.

They experiment and take good counsel from those who are more experienced than them.

They take negative experiences with a grain of salt because they keep in mind they still have a lot to learn.

They accept the fact that the level of their remote seduction abilities is not there yet or may need some jet fuel to project more penetrative psychic ammunition and that they may have to master energy better.

They may buy relevant products or work with a coach like me.

They have a great deal of drive and have the mindset that,

 "I am going to figure it out, no matter what!" 

Even though a beginner like Max may struggle at first, they typically end up getting more enviable/superior results faster and making a series of their own inventions in the process that allow them to sky rocket their progress even more. 

Which brings me to the question below..

Which beginner are you Jack or Max?

Can you deal with uncertainty for a while?

Can you stick things out even when you feel unmotivated?

Can you learn from others and self diagnose your weaknesses?


Patch Up!

Beginners like Max obviously get the breakout results. 

They put in a lot of effort, have strong positive attitudes, are focused on the things that take them closer to their goals, are willing to try anything to get there, and are deeply motivated to make it work.

Beginners like Jack, on the other hand, obviously get the poorest results because they're not involved in the process, really, and if they get any success in it at all, it's due more to chance or some degree of natural aptitude than it is to any motivation they have to succeed.

If you are Jack, can you become like Max?

Well, I guess it depends.

Do you want to? 

And if so, how much effort are you willing to put, and are you willing to do whateve it takes to win? 

The simple fact is that each of us has different priorities in life.

We don't all want the same thing, nor to the same amplitude, so is with remote seduction, just like anything else worth learning, you get what you put in.

Obviously, if you want consistent, mind-blowing results, you must:

Weigh your expectations properly,

Be prepared to put more effort, 

Be prepared to deal with some complexities in the process, and 

Take good counsel/teaching to heart because remote seduction is more of a skillset than any quick snake oil technique out there.

Here is my free guide about the seven-pillars of psychic seduction.

Willing to work with me? Book a free consultation here to see if we are a good fit.

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Peace...

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